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Thirty looks luminous on you, my love. A whole new decade with you on my arm feels less like an ending and more like the chapter I've been waiting to write. Whatever this year brings, let's meet it the way we've met everything so far , together, laughing, paying attention. Happy 30th, beautiful.

Happy 40th, my love. The forties are when you fully stop pretending. You know exactly who you are, exactly what you will and won't put up with, and exactly how you take your coffee. You are the most yourself you have ever been , and you have never, in my opinion, been better. Happy birthday.

Happy birthday, my love. I'm not great at surprises, but I'm great at you. That's the best birthday card I've got. Happy birthday.